From There to Here
Simple Ideas That Led Me Somewhere New
You know you're capable of more-so why doesn't life seem to get better?
From There to Here is for people who feel like they’ve outgrown their current life—like everyone else moved on, but they’re still in the same place no matter how hard they try.
You’ve tried to do better.
You’ve told yourself this time would be different.
You’ve waited for the right time.
But somehow, nothing seems to work, and you end up in the same place.
You tell yourself you’re dumb.
You tell yourself it’s not possible.
You’ve given up more than once.
But it’s not because you’re missing something.
It’s because nothing changes until the way you think changes.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
Your days start to feel the same..
Same people. Same problems. Same worries.
Always broke. Always stressed.
Can’t seem to get your shit together.
You try to do better, but something always comes up.
There’s always an emergency.
You never catch up on bills.
Someone always has an opinion when they should be minding their own business.
Someone always pulls you into drama.
After a while, you stop asking why —
you just deal with it.
It becomes normal.
And that’s where most people get stuck.
Why I wrote this book
I spent years feeling angry, lost, sad, and disappointed with myself and the way my life turned out.
For years, my weeks felt the same.
High on drugs, reliving the same patterns of guilt, shame, hatred, and disgust—sprinkled with short moments of happiness when I’d see my kids.
Eventually, I learned that my beliefs and actions were the things keeping me stuck.
I had to embrace new ideas in order to get different results.
I had to learn how to let go of the person I had become and rebuild the life I wanted—one belief and one decision at a time.
I know there are people still stuck where I once was.
And I know these ideas, when applied, can help them get out—just like they helped me.
From There to Here doesn’t promise quick fixes.
It helps you understand why you keep repeating the same patterns, ending up in the same place—and what to do differently.
A simple path forward
Step 1 — Buy the book
The best investment you can make is in yourself.
Step 2 — Read the book
Be open to the ideas shared.
See your patterns from a different point of view—without judgment.
Step 3 — Apply the insights
Adapt what you learn and make it your own.
Break patterns that don’t move you forward and replace them with better decisions.
Step 4 — Welcome new opportunities
As your thinking changes, so does your life.
New beliefs lead to new actions, which lead to new results.
This book is for you if:
You’re life isn’t what you thought it’d be by now
You’re tired of never getting the results you want
- You deserve to get paid more
You can’t let go of your past
You feel like people take advantage of you
- You feel like people don’t appreciate or respect you
You’re ready to stop putting up with people’s bullshit
You don’t need a new life.
You need a new way of thinking.
You can’t change what you don’t see.
Once you see the patterns and behaviors, your decisions and actions become intentional—and that’s where things change.